Without a doubt, a man's actions speak ever-so-loudly. It's the age-old advice that actions speak louder than words, and when it comes to romantic interests, I've pretty much seen it all.

Women overthink, they second-guess and continuously over-analyze situations that have no merit. They waste countless hours wondering in anxiety for the unknown, and it couldn’t be more counterproductive.

Truth is, if you're having to determine whether or not he's really into you, then the answer is no, HE IS NOT.

When a man is truly interested, there is no questioning, no wondering, no self-imposed anxiety trying to figure it all out. You won’t have to question the situation, it will be obvious because his behavior will tell you everything you need to know.

And when the answer is no, accept it! Stop making excuses for him! Stop whining to your friends. Stop sending him text messages that get no response. Stop leaving voicemails that never get answered because at some point you have to open your eyes to the reality that you've become more of a nuisance than a desire.

The fact is “he’s just not that into you” and rather than being a pest, you should be thanking him instead of pushing yourself on him.

Yes, I said thank him.

Thank him because he didn't lead you on for his selfish purpose. He didn't play with your heart. He didn't knowingly take advantage of your vulnerability. He had no interest and chose to walk away. And as hard as that may be to your ego, you should be thankful.


Stop giving men so much power. Never compromise yourself for a man who doesn't want you. 

When you stop looking for him, and I mean truly stop looking, that is when you finally find him, the right man. But until then, don't whimper or cry about it, he's made himself clear. 

It's over.

Move on.

Smile because it happened [and hopefully] because you’ve learned.